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What’s Love Got To Do With It?

What’s Love Got To Do With It? DUE TO HOMOPHOBIA AND THE STILL FIERCE DEMAND OF HETEROSEXISM TO CONFORM, WHAT HAS BEEN COMPROMISED IS A DEEPER MEANING OF THE GAY PERSONALITY ROOTED IN A SOULFUL CONNECTION TO AN INNER FELT EXPERIENCE OF THE INHERENT RIGHT OF ALL GAY...

When Sex Isn’t Enough

When Sex Isn’t Enough HOW ONE MAN’S EXPLORATION OF HIS GAY SELFHOOD IS BEGINNING TO TURN HIS LIFE AROUND Dale starts telling me about all the sex he has had over the course of his life-time from early adolescence up until now. Dale is a gay middle-aged man who...

Gay Personhood

Gay Personhood WE ARE PART OF A LINEAGE – A HOMOSEXUAL BROTHERHOOD – REGARDLESS OF COLOR OR RACE OR ETHNICITY “No Asians.” “No blacks.” “White guys only.” “Latins and blacks only.” Statements like this on gay internet dating sites bring up many...

The Perfect Body

The Perfect Body As many of you may have read, in a study from the UK, almost 50% of gay men in the survey said they would sac­rifice one year of their life for the perfect body. What an alarming indication of the emphasis on extroverted physical values to feel...

Matter of Pride

Matter of Pride – Live Out Loud The unnamed wish at the heart of a gay pride celebration, underneath all its extroverted activities: a gay, mind-blowing, soulful life of meaning. If you look up “pride” in the dictionary you will find these synonyms: self-esteem,...